Loving People Hard

“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence they satisfy you.” -Wayne Dyer

Moving thru judgement too empathy can be as easy or as challenging as I want to make it. However, the human brain will offer the judgement first! “Why don’t they just do this, or why can’t they just say that?”

The brain is constantly offering suggestions on how other people could show up differently, so that I could then feel better. The brain is tricky because my brain thinks that my suggestions would make the others feel better. I feel as if I'm helping.

But the truth is, the ability for others to feel better only comes from their thoughts! Their thoughts about themselves or their circumstances can drive different results, only if they want them too. Them not choosing to change their thoughts gives me the opportunity to manage my own emotions around their decisions.

Expecting others to show up differently so that I can feel better is referred to as emotional childhood. When I take responsibility for my own emotional state regardless of how others show up, I am in emotional adulthood. This is a graceful and yet powerful place to be! I am your guide. I can’t wait! Let’s go!

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